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The keys had barely changed hands when my daughter said, “First, we get a new shower.”

Paige and her fiancé, Adam, had just moved from Texas to Colorado into their first home together.

She would be starting a new job in a month, and getting married a month after that. As if a major move, a new house, a new job and a wedding weren’t enough, she wanted to rip out the old shower in the primary bathroom and put in a new one ─ yesterday.

Never one to shy away from a house project (I did raise her, after all), Paige, with Adam’s help, had already deep-cleaned the house, outfitted the garage to fit two cars and a camp’s worth of sports equipment, repaired the broken irrigation system, put organizers in the pantry and was replacing the badly dog-soiled carpet, all in a few weeks. The shower was next.

“I’ve had better showers in college dorms,” Paige said. “It needs to go.”

A slow approach

Being in Florida, I hadn’t yet seen the house or the shower — only pictures — but I couldn’t argue.

“Well,” I said, treading lightly, “replacing the shower will likely involve more than just the shower. You might want to first have a plan for the whole bathroom.”

Silence.

I suggested she talk to a Denver interior designer I knew who lived close by. Karlie Adams and I go back 20 years, when she helped me pick finishes for a home I was building in Colorado. “I could pay her consulting fee as a housewarming present,” I said.

“Mom, I just want a decent shower. Do we really need a designer?”

I dropped the subject.







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Repeating the message

Paige and Adam called a contractor. He sized up the job and said, basically, “You probably should do more than the shower.” He asked what tile they wanted, or did they want stone. They would need to pick fixtures and should consider a new tub. At that, Paige and Adam threw in the bath towel. Yes, they wanted a new shower fast, but they also wanted their bathroom done right.

Though Paige and Adam can readily tackle most structural issues around the house, design decisions leave them as frozen as the North Pole in January. Boy, do I know that feeling.

“Do you think Karlie could help?” Paige asked. My heart turned a cartwheel. Not long afterward, I flew to Colorado, and met Karlie at the house.

As she walked the house, she streamed interior design ideas for each room, dozens in all, and an overall direction for the house. I took copious notes.

Most moves are simple: Lower drapery rods throughout, so drapes touch the ground. Upgrade the builder-grade toilet and basic production mirror in the powder room. Beef up the crown moldings around the top of kitchen cabinets. Paint the white gloss mantel dark gray matte to make it look more custom, and so on.

Coming to agreement

When she got to the primary bath, we all took a deep breath.

Karlie spoke first. “I tell my clients, though it’s often not what they want to hear, that it’s better to gut and start over than to just put in a new shower.”

I could tell by their expressions that Paige and Adam knew she was right. “So that’s what we’ll do,” said Paige, the brave. “What’s another house project?”

After Karlie left, Adam said, “Our to-do list just got a lot longer, but at least we won’t be wasting money.”

And that’s the point. Later, I called Karlie to talk about her best advice for young couples tackling a new home:

1. DON’T SEEK INSTANT PERFECTION: “One of my big beefs with home improvement shows is that they set new homebuyers up for failure,” she said. “People watching these shows think everything comes together so easily, then feel they need to have perfection instantly, when, in fact, they need to take their time.”

2. START WITH THE BONES: As tempting as it is to run out and get fun accessories, tap the breaks and get the backgrounds (floors, walls and window coverings) right, then slowly move inward. “That may not seem so gratifying at first,” she said, “but it’s more prudent. People would rather buy toss pillows at Pottery Barn when they really should replace their baseboards.”

3. PRACTICE PATIENCE: Go slowly and buy quality pieces that make an investment in your design future. “Nothing is better than not quite right.” (That said, Paige and I, being human, did go to Home Goods and buy a few accessories to decorate the mantel. It felt good.)

4. KNOW YOURSELF: Figure out who you are, and build your look around that. Probably the best advice Karlie gave Paige and Adam was to affirm what their look should be based on who they are. Adam is a geologist, an accomplished fisherman, and a great outdoorsman. Paige, a newly minted veterinarian, loves animals and nature. Karlie advised them to build their home around that vibe, using worn leather, Pendleton pillows and throws, weathered wood and rustic finishes.

In the basement, for instance, where a series of framed posters of national parks line one wall, she suggested replacing the whitewashed trestle coffee table with three cross sections of tree trunks. “Karlie reaffirmed our instincts,” Paige said, “and showed us how to build a home around them.”

5. HAVE A PLAN BEFORE YOU START: A typical situation is when someone wants a new kitchen sink and faucet, Karlie said. “They put those in, then realize the rest of the kitchen needs updating. They eventually tear out the sink and faucet because it doesn’t fit with the new concept, and wind up throwing good money after bad.” That’s the scenario she wanted Paige and Adam to avoid. And they will.

Marni Jameson can be reached at www.marnijameson.com.


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